Thursday, October 2, 2014

Jay's 5 Month Update





Can I just start by saying this is such an awesome stage for babies!?
 Hands down, this month has been the most fun for me to watch Jay
 learn and grow. He is so interested in everything and loves
 to take everything in. I can almost see his little 
brain growing as the days go on.
 He loves to grab at everything. Cups and bottles are some of his
 favorites to get his hands (and mouth) on. He's been eying our
 remote for a few weeks now like its a piece of steak, but i've
 watched too many news stories about how the remote is like a
 toilet seat when it comes to germs, so we try to keep that at a distance.
 He's also become a lot more vocal. Lots of grunts and this weird
 high pitched squeal that almost sounds like a baby dinosaur.
 We think its hilarious!
 He can roll over from his stomach to his back, but its
 only when he's feeling like it... most of the time he would rather
 just stay on his tummy and look around. He is a little
 jumper and bouncer and loves to stand up and sit up to play now.
 He *almost* can sit by himself which is awesome and a little
 sad for me at the same time. Where is my little baby going!!??!?









Jay is starting to recognize familiar faces and just ADORES his daddy.
 It's the sweetest thing I've ever seen. He lights up when Scottie
 gets home from work. It's hard to say who is happier
 to see the other.
 I just love watching the two of them interact. Jay already has so many
 of Scottie's traits, I know they will be such great buddies when he gets older.




Speaking of buddies- Jay and Hagen are starting to grow quite the bromance.
 Jay loves to pet his head and pat Hagen.
 I cannot wait to watch the two of them together in a few months. 




Remember when I said how blessed we feel to have a healthy baby?
 Ahhhh, life.
 Jay was not sleeping well about a week ago and started to get a hoarse voice.
 At first I figured he was going through the "4 Month Sleep Regression"
 where babies commonly go through a few weeks of bad sleep,
 but his hoarse voice wasn't going away.
 I took him into the doctor even though he was still acting just
 as happy as normal and he didn't have a fever.
 Sure enough, he had an ear infection. Poor guy. 
He's on amoxicillin for 10 days and hopefully that will clear it up.
 Nevertheless, I still feel blessed that this is all we have 
been dealt (knock on wood, life).




Jay's naps have started to become more predictable and lasting longer.
 We're down to three naps a day that last a little over an hour each. 
That's all great and a huge improvement from last month,
 but we're still in the stroller and I still have to work
 to keep him asleep for that long.
 I've decided to wait until 6 months and then we will have
 a rough  week of sleep training in his crib and 
**hopefully** 
things will get much better after that. We will see though.
 This baby likes to keep me on my toes.








Bath time is one of Jay's favorites and we are getting 
real close to moving him to the bathtub because he is 
starting to get to be too big for that infant tub. 






What a life... bath and some football. What more could
a guy want??

Jay took his longest trip to date this month all the way up to 
Savannah, GA (5.5 Hours). I was so nervous that after
 about 3 hours he was just going to cry the rest of the way, but he
 did remarkably well! I wish I could say we went all
 that way for another reason, but my grandmother passed away so
 off to Georgia we went. She was very sick and bedridden for a 
long time, so I was happy that the Lord took her and she was able
 to be with my grandfather again. Ever since he died six years ago she
 hasn't been the same. I must say, there is something terribly sad,
 but terribly beautiful about losing such a long and true love.
 She walked around like a lost soul because half of her was gone.
 I'm so happy to know they are both complete again.
 I could go on and on about how in love they were
 with each other and how inspiring their love was to 
me, but I'll just leave it at that =). I have so many amazing
 memories as a kid coming up to Savannah to visit my
 grandparents and this trip also forced me to say good-bye 
to their neighborhood that I loved visiting so much.
 It was a sad, but necessary trip.
 Having Jay there definitely helped everyone deal with the loss, though.
 One life ends and another begins. God knew what he was doing when he created us.

This was the only pic I took of Jay all dressed up.. the days
were a little hectic, but how CUTE is he!?

Speaking of... Jay also had a really important day this month when he was Baptized.
 It was a really special day for the whole family
 and we were so happy to have everyone with us to witness his sacrament of Baptism.




What a blessing Jay has been to our lives. I always thought my life was happy and full,
 and it was but not to this extent. Daily, I wake up feeling 
like my heart is so full. 
It's the best feeling in the world!


Happy 5 months to our sweet, smart, easy-going little buddy. We love you!


Uhh, side note- these pics are getting difficult
in his chair. ha ha


















Tuesday, September 2, 2014

Jay's 4 Month Update


My oh my. This sweet little chunker is now 4 months old!
 It seems like the more active he gets, the faster my days go.
 I want to take a second to say how blessed we feel to have such
 a healthy little boy. So many parents have scares with their little
 ones and I feel so thankful that we haven't had to deal with that yet. 




Jay is becoming very active and his wake times are getting
 longer and longer (a little over 2hrs at a time). He loves to
sit up on your lap and stand and stomp his feet (with help). He smiles
 and squeals all the time and is quite the flirt with the ladies ;).
 I've heard him giggle a few times now, but I can't wait until he starts doing
 that regularly too. He loves to look at books and grab at pictures.




As wonderful and happy as Jay is during the day, he does
 struggle with the naps. I've tried everythinggggggg
 (blackout curtains, white noise, swaddle, no swaddle, lights on, tv on... Etc)
 and I finally decided that it is what it is and he will get over
this stage soon (maybe?). We now have him napping in the
stroller and it is working better than anything else basically
 because when he does wake up after a few mins into his nap
 I can just rock the stroller a few times and he drifts back
 to sleep.. Most of the time. If any mommas out there have any
 other tips for me I am open to pretty much anything =).

We took Jay in the ocean for the first time this month
 and he loved it... He is such a little beach baby! 






We took him for his 4 month checkup and he is 15lbs and 24in.
Which evidently is quite short for a 4 month old.
 Shows what I know.. I was walking around talking
 about what a big baby he is!





After Jay was born I knew my daily life changed but I didn't realize
 how much it changed me as a person until last week.
 I was driving on the interstate stuck in traffic because of an accident.
When I finally was able to see the crash, there was a helicopter
 taking a motorcyclist who evidently was in an awful accident
 with another vehicle. Before I think my response would have
 been "danggggg, they had to bring a helicopter in.. That's crazy!
 Hope he's okay." And that would have been the end of it.
 Now, as I passed all I could think about what this man's family..
 Did he have kids? What about his wife? Or parents?
 I prayed and prayed for all of them. I was so selfish
before I had Jay... I still am, but I think that trait is
 slowly starting to fade away. I'm so thankful for my baby
 not only because he brings so much joy to my life
but because he is making me a better person.



Happy 4 month Birthday, Buddy!!